certainly, to extend one’s identity is a good practice
this afternoon i was totally lose of appreciation when reacting to peter’s frustration…
in turn, a heavy impact formed—my reaction and my entity as a partner was then claimed as disaster
‘disaster’ bought me to deep reflection–
i was too hurry to comment on the nature of problem; too eager to speak out my old opinion before having had to listen, more than enough, with a bigger ‘identity’, so as to show my understanding of his feeling…
i love the way seth treat himself as a traveller, and salute us, travellers coming across, at this certain period and space, learning and playing on our journey.
last night, online dr hsu course – 情緒修練.
he talks about deeply empathy 深層同理! … which is different form 同理心.
how to deeply empathy on someone, and deeply empathy on ur own also. it is a great practice for release one pain, karma, suffering, poorness…etc.
deeply empathy means understand/share a person feelings, and accept their reasons behind (no matter how unreasonable?!), totally without any kind of judgments…should be or not should be…right or wrong.
and trust that all beings are 善 (nice and positive, wishing others happy and with love.)
i think to extend one’s identity, is means we r able to deeply empathy on anyone, in order to extend our love.
this is A REAL KIND OF “慈悲心” “with matta” indeed !!
dear mate, i think we both have “weakness” on empathy to 親密伴侶.
i explain about that on the article – “For my ex”. realize why i always mentally requesting too much on male partner.
glad that we found. once those being faced, they all gone~
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snow white // 六月 17, 2008 at 10:57 pm |
certainly, to extend one’s identity is a good practice
this afternoon i was totally lose of appreciation when reacting to peter’s frustration…
in turn, a heavy impact formed—my reaction and my entity as a partner was then claimed as disaster
‘disaster’ bought me to deep reflection–
i was too hurry to comment on the nature of problem; too eager to speak out my old opinion before having had to listen, more than enough, with a bigger ‘identity’, so as to show my understanding of his feeling…
i love the way seth treat himself as a traveller, and salute us, travellers coming across, at this certain period and space, learning and playing on our journey.
harriettsoi // 六月 24, 2008 at 6:33 am |
Dear Snow white,
last night, online dr hsu course – 情緒修練.
he talks about deeply empathy 深層同理! … which is different form 同理心.
how to deeply empathy on someone, and deeply empathy on ur own also. it is a great practice for release one pain, karma, suffering, poorness…etc.
deeply empathy means understand/share a person feelings, and accept their reasons behind (no matter how unreasonable?!), totally without any kind of judgments…should be or not should be…right or wrong.
and trust that all beings are 善 (nice and positive, wishing others happy and with love.)
i think to extend one’s identity, is means we r able to deeply empathy on anyone, in order to extend our love.
this is A REAL KIND OF “慈悲心” “with matta” indeed !!
dear mate, i think we both have “weakness” on empathy to 親密伴侶.
i explain about that on the article – “For my ex”. realize why i always mentally requesting too much on male partner.
glad that we found. once those being faced, they all gone~
Harriet