愛、慾、性 ＊(十三號天使)

pls click to youtube, also read the comments below that video…

很多人在吵什麽？文字或語言只不過是爲了表現事實的工具。

If any of you cannot understand why people sing this song, then please go look for yourself!

現在這個時代還有逼良為娼嗎？還是賣身妓院嗎？事實已經證明了現 代的婊子和以前不同。

People still think girl become a hooker because of life or something! Sorry this isn’t true anymore! The truth is what this song about!

很多人接受不了事實啊…只懂得聽那些愛來愛去的那些有的沒的 

he shouldn’t make fun of hookers

mc hotdog 是把現今年輕人扭曲的價值觀用暗喻的手法寫出來。其實是一首發人 省思的歌…..仔細看他的歌詞…雖然很悲哀，可是不可否 認的這就是目前的事實。

許多人已經被物質的享受而蒙蔽了道德…甚至還有人還覺得援交 是正當職業!!你勸她，她反而覺得你是原始人，你落伍了…真 正的問題不在mc hotdog…而是在社會!!我認為這是一首很棒的歌!!是 不是能因為這首歌而喚醒某部分人的道德良心…隨緣吧!!至少當初我因為這首歌，更看清了這個社會…

非常正 ! 哈
比d援交女睇….呢個世風日下既時代
錢越多就隨你搞 錢越多就隨你搞…….

hey, u dont need to judge, which quote is saying something “correct”.
unnecessary to agree who is right or wrong, because You Create Your Own Reality, u MUST focus on “ur own truth/ what u believed”.

watch the video, and understand ur feelings.
read the comments, and understand ur thoughts.

u only need to do, is understanding ur own core beliefs.”outside” is only performing  in order to reflect ur mind.

more to read: 愛、慾、性 ＊四 , 愛、慾、性 ＊五

人生匆匆?

i posted on facebook: i m in tears when i watch it… although it seems nothing “touching”, just a normal love story, very normal… but sweet to make me feel love.

Carl & Ellie A Love Story fr UP.
i think this short story is a very good detector… how do u feel after watched??
(which related to ur own core beliefs)

1. “how wonderful love story!! but not possibly exist in the world…“
2. “sad story… always missed 兌現對自己或摯愛的承諾“
3. “在現實與夢想之間must hv conflicts!” Cheng Ho Lun
4. “一份平淡的愛其實都是很多人所追求. 很溫馨很真實.” Fanny Wong
5. “pretty and imaginative woman, always get someone love her~~(XXXD)” Harriet Tsoi

1. “it is an awesome Pixar 3d animation. “
2. “i hv watched la, u r not updating.”
3. “yeah, so beautiful, the quality of computer animation becoming better and better now~~”
4. okay. blue one is not about ur own feeling at all… i know u cant tell… its ok, friend. (:P)
   

more than anyone else

“there is certain somebody, the person you love more, than you love anybody else. 在每個人的一生中，總有一些人，你愛他們多過於其他人。” 在威力新的分享內看到…

不知怎樣, 我每次聽到[小城大事]也很觸動, 或流淚… (身為全地球最”自我覺察”的直心甜瓜… 我也不明白???)

渴愛

這兩天跟anna聊起, 她看書提到, 可讀’症狀的希望’, 看到’嗜甜就是渴愛‘*這點時, 第一個想到的就是我 (我很喜歡吃甜品的, 可以取代正餐ka~~).
我拍拖以後, 大家見我有所改變, 都歸功於”這個事件”. umm…

保守?

 近來說得太正經啦, 不如轉一轉味=^^= (如果你唔夠十八歲, 自己決定睇唔睇…)

愛、慾、性 ＊七

重拾[愛、慾、性]這個題目,  真是要多謝一眾仁兄仁姐*。
first of all,  知情人仕就不用多說, 不知情的讀者們, 就不便多說! 哈哈哈~~~~

緣份就是上帝的詭計

之前我一直指出, 現代男人女人的取向, 都是偏向理性和感性之間的分岐, 重點要互相平衡和學習。
性的慾望, 就是一種強烈的牽引令這一對遇上, 碰上到磨擦(身+心都…”磨”), 就在這互動之間…
迫出了情愛怨恨。產生家庭婚姻。印記著悲歡離合。
第一層面完結。

愛、慾、性 ＊六

男人在邏輯理性之外

男人嘛。老是講道理, 樣樣都解說一餐, 又要證據又要條件。
『沒頭沒腦的直覺, 是婆娘才有的衝動!』
『感性能做飯吃麼?! 冷靜點才幹出大事來。』

他, 偏偏具備著一條常常無緣無故, 一take即起的裝置。弄人啊!

愛、慾、性 ＊五

淫慾無罪  (我唔係鼓勵濫交呀!)

今晚跟少芬去了一個佛學講課，生動活潑，很好。只是我就不會選擇講【地臧經】，太多恐懼和懲罰觀念了。
當中有提到不能淫邪，不可為娼妓。據說後果慘得要命!

我認為，淫邪是一種狀態，娼妓是提供一個平衡的需求。
如果要堅持“不能”和“不可”，倒不如觀察和了解本源吧!

口渴要飲水；性渴就多行房。家中不能滿足更去嫖妓，發展婚外情。
我覺得正常到不得了。
他們某個層面是希望讓自己生活上能維持正常運作而找方法平衡。
我接納。

『嘩!道德呢?!人性墮落喎!!??』

for u

i want to express : i dont mean to make u unhappy,
i want to hug,
i want to say something for explain,

愛、慾、性 ＊四

性觀念

見到男人看風月版，你覺得? (死賤格佬!)
一家大小看電視，播放男女親熱場面，你會? (左顧右盼，不能正視?)
男友或老公暗地裡常看咸濕雜誌? (變態架! 一定會出軌!)

愛、慾、性 ＊三

「女人難攪！」 ( 身為女性，我只能深表同情~ 加油啦，哥仔!!)

男性的特質在這個世代發展得偏執地 “迷信”理性及邏輯。最大的影響，就是他們抗拒接觸感情的部份。
愛嘛，也希望用道理來談。

愛、慾、性 ＊二

突破”扭曲”的性愛觀念

有些宗教提倡禁慾，一切從”素”。性愛是一個減修為，減德行，減能量的行為。　
『慾念是墜落，性是厭惡』；

有些宗教又提倡縱慾，性愛就是連接神的通道，仿如冥想、靈修。
性愛是一個提昇的方向，靈性滋養的工具。
『隨心隨意地做吧！』

愛、慾、性 ＊一

(終於，我開始寫出我鑽研以久的大題目超級長編連續BLOG－愛慾性。)

性慾只為生物繁衍?太膚淺了吧！我不收貨

在二十歲時，初嘗做愛。完事後雖然百感交雜，正當手忙腳亂地各自清潔之際，腦海不禁浮出一句「奇妙！造物者安排了男人有個突出來的，放入女人的缺口內，之後大家就舒服的要命，太奇妙啦！」

P.S. I LOVE YOU

[留給最愛的情書]
Directed by: Richard Lagravenese 2007

這齣電影令我開悟了！令我在感情的那一部份見到了自己限制的觀念。
哭了整套片，心內豁然開朗，明白了自己對感情的執著，深深的一種不安全感。
見到、明白、釋放，開悟就是這樣簡單啦！

男主角腦癌過身之後，一直引導他妻子尋回她信任的本性（她原本就是這樣遇上心中的最愛），找到自己存在的方向和品質。他在情書內，不斷叫她留意身邊的“啟示”。
你以為“啟示”是他安排嗎？其實每個人生活中也潛藏著“啟示”，目的是指引你去成就自己更美好的人生。
信任宇宙，追隨衝動，認同自己的直覺。片中有位女角，遇上目標便會問「是單身嗎？」「是同性戀嗎？」「有工作嗎？」再來一個吻來決定是否對配，而且她更堅信「她的那個他」前半生總是遇上錯的女人。
令我想起[Love Actually]中那個“社交阻礙症”的英國青年，貿然飛去美國溝女，結果大獲全勝，贏得四位星級靚女“愛透他”！

請相你自己獨有的一套哲學。

記著：世界永遠愛你！我也愛你！
(P.S. I Love You too. Harriet)

GLOOMY SUNDAY

(布達佩斯之戀) 台
(憂鬱的星期天) 港
Background：德 / 匈牙利
Directed by Kolf Schubel, 1999

表面上是一個女人因為美貌和任性而獲得齊人之福，受著兩個男人的寵愛又能互相共存，最後被另外一個曾被她拒絕的男人，破壞她的幸福，把她的男人一個個帶走，而報復成功。

依我所看到，是多種層次的愛。女的忠於自己的感覺，為愛而愛，不是貪也不利用。坦然地交出自己(身體)和愛(靈魂)，分享給自己愛的人。

在自由的前提下，兩位男友也懂得珍惜，包容。愛屋及烏地照顧和支持對方。雖然嫉妒是理所當然的發生，而女主角總能以柔情將憤怒化解。他們三人完全能體現出真摰又成熟的愛情。

如果樂曲能令眾多人自殺，那一定是靈魂的歌聲，唱出心底話，喚出生命的本質。
相對於盲目的活著，倒不如當下結束。讓每一個存在更覺知，更精彩。

這是一首偉大的歌曲。

THE NOTE BOOK

(手扎情緣)/ (戀戀筆記本)/ (忘了忘不了)
Directed by 尼克‧卡薩維茨 (Nick Cassavetes)
Produced by New Line Production, 2004

一個愛情故事。
一個真實的愛情故事，如果你要活出一個美麗的愛情，便深深地相信及被感動了。
兩個靈魂遇上，互相學習和享受一生。
就在相遇及分離的日子。
他選擇相信，從不懷疑也不執著。尊重每一個靈魂的選擇。愛護及守護他自己的天使。守護是主角，也是配角。堅持他的愛，也放棄不活在真實以外。
她要遇上愛她的人，令她了解信任感及安全感。「冒險便是人生」，她就是要從實踐中活出存在的真義。
當觀者去選擇這是一篇「騙人」的童話式愛情故事，他便選擇去相信這是假的。觀者也可以決定去相信愛情，深厚的愛情是活在人生中；可以成為他自己個人的經驗。一旦相信，是真正的相信。

無論遇上多少考驗，也不動搖。

那，便是真正的相信。

人們的愛情

我知道你有能力和愛心去宠愛一個女人.
當你遇到最愛之時, 你不会去計較, 樂意去付出.
她快樂, 你便快樂. 她痛苦, 你也心痛.

pure love and uniqueness

all kinds of love are full of joy and happiness.  nothing wrong with love.  all relationships around us are not only started from this life…but may involve many many lives already.*

why ppl meet each others? why ppl attract each others? what is infatuation? why love romance makes someone feeling happy, while someone else feels sad?

if nothing about right or wrong, without any criticism on urself… are u able to do that? (at least for a moment pls~)
being responsible to urself is not equal to selfish. can u understand?
marriage is full of beauty, supposed to be a process of creating, not sustaining. are u both doing that? i m surprised but totally agree when i heard this for the very first time.

i know it’s hard to open your mind and review your own values. but ur soul planed to give u this chance, while u are ready to be awaken.
in my life, every accident, every heart breaking event, every moment i felt hurt…on the other hand, i learn and grown, life expanded, those are all fruitful.
this is not only about a positive thinking!! it does happen to me, or, i may repeat the pain until the day i had enough!

i come to present pure love and one’s uniqueness.
but not to change the world,
or u,
or anyone.
yet those will happen when it’s ready.
by Harriet Tsoi 禧品

more to read: guilty free sex
*It does not follow that everyone with whom you are concerned was also involved with you in past lives. You will always meet new personalities in various existences, as well as people you have known. – fr Seth Books

並不是你所關心的每一個人都和你的前世有牽連。在不同的存在中，你總是遇到新的人格，正如遇到曾經認識的人一樣。

guilt-free sex

nothing left when we die, only feelings and loves (hates).
nothing really important about life experience, but only the interactions with all souls around matters.

we have bodies, dresses for souls, tools for experiencing in lives on earth.

all emotions and instincts are guiding us to understand ourselves, those are messages from inner-self (soul), meaningful and useful, no matter it seems positive or negative regarding particular culture.
physical body likes being touched, kiss is to express love, sex is to give happiness, all those are wonderful functions.
pls don’t feel guilty about the gift to you.
it’s holy, as well as soul with mind and body. we are practicing Gods on earth.

there is nothing wrong with sex and love. if our souls holistically balanced enough, it won’t drive u to suffer from desire on sex or love.
if ur needs make u suffering, it means ur soul is telling u something. try to listen...soul never leads u to harm other beings.

so, listen into it deeply, be patient, don’t judge it immediately.
events provide wisdom and compassion, if u are able to access the positive suggestion of them… if u can detach fr the “man made” guilt of all value u used to carry…
universe will give u guidance, through a book, or a friend, or a msg fr forwarding pps, or even a youtube video… etc.

read this carefully: do u aim to hurt ur partner (wife/husband) while u having sex with anyone else? if the answer is NO, than, don’t feel guilty at all. after u r free fr guilt(fr ego), u would be able to listen to ur soul.
Seth talked about “人工罪惡感” (artificial guilt) and “自然罪惡感” (natural guilt), trying not to increase 人工罪惡感 (artificial guilt)… it only creates emotional suppress and mental diseases but without insight .**

ur partner would get hurt when she(he) know u don’t love her any more…she won’t get physically hurt when u make love with someone else. Instead, if she knows u make love with someone else, either she would get mentally hurt by the feeling of “u don’t love me anymore“! or, she would suffer from thought of “u betray me!“
can u see the key point? it doesn’t matter what u did, it matters on what she(he) feel about ur love.

if u think love is limitation or restriction, u will focus on ur responsibility on being a husband or father(roles in life). u will providing “love” to ur partner becuz u “need” to… but, maybe she don’t “need” that at all…
we always try hard to becoming an ideal partner to our lover. indeed, u would be surprised that, our understanding of ideal self usually totally different fr that of ur partner actually treasured(expected). pls listen to her(him) before u “work hard” on it. (hee hee)

if u think love is creating and expending, u will see possibility and flowing (impermanency), u will keep understanding msg behind those events. universe always guide us to hv better future, win-win for everyone, no matter it seems to be troublesome to you for THIS moment. impermanencey doesn’t mean unstable relationship, but our consciousness always expand.

wish all be set free from this issue soon.

**about “人工罪惡感” (artificial guilt) and “天然罪惡感” (natural guilt), tell more here later.

more to read: 愛、慾、性 ＊一